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Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Are Your Kids Excited to Go to Haiti?

13 Days Until the Big Move!

Family and Friends,

We often get asked the question, "Are your kids excited to go to Haiti?"  We think they are.  We hope they are.  They even tell us they are.  But let's be honest, they probably have a very limited concept of what we are getting into, and the adjustment will be an ongoing challenge for all of us.  But we hope the daily struggles will lead to personal growth in our lives if we are patient and watch for those teachable moments.

To prepare for this transition we have been looking at pictures of people and places in Haiti, talking through different potentially challenging scenarios, and in general simply reassuring the kids that everything will be okay.  For example, we acted out the airport security process and made the kids put their backpacks and shoes on the "belt", walk through the metal detector without Mom and Dad, and pretend to board the plane.  They even got a snack and some juice out of the deal.  Maybe God uses these activities to reassure us nervous adults as well! 

We also have been spending our time working hard on homeschooling and taking time to do some fun activities that won't be available in Haiti.  Please enjoy the pictures below to get to know our kids a little better and see what they have been up to during our last weeks in Sioux Falls.



Kester reading to Elizabeth and one of her lions, Noil ("lion" backwards)

Kester doing homework

Elizabeth hard at work

Alexandra working on handwriting

We have enjoyed our Zoo membership the last 2 years...Elizabeth
enjoys one final visit and a climb on the gorilla statue

Alexandra on the turtle at the zoo

Kester would have been a good missionary to South America...
He likes llamas and alpacas

Our kids have endless adventures with their "soft animals"
One of the hard parts of moving is leaving most of them behind.
This is Elizabeth with her herd of friends.  Can you find bushy?

Kester's Karnivorous Kingdom

Alexandra's Amazing Amalgamation of Assorted Animals


A sign by Dad and kids to welcome Lynn back from saying "goodbye" to some old friends over coffee
Alexandra is nicknamed "DD", Elizabeth is "Wiz", and our dog Cookie who is going with us to Haiti.


Grandpa and Grandma Bleeker invited us to swim at the Ramada in Sioux Falls.  The kids are enjoying a break from the action.  The sign says "no smoking", but it doesn't say anything about puppy chow! 
We had a great time!


Alexandra tries to fight off the shark attacking Elizabeth


The kids finally got to go to Chuck-E-Cheese after saving up good behavior points in school for over 2 months!

May your day be an adventure for Jesus! 
(The snow and wind might help make it happen!)
-The Grimms

Monday, October 25, 2010

Elise (pronounced uh-lee-zay)

15 Days Until the Big Move!

Below are two poems by Jules "Elise" Damas, one of the key young men in the Haitian youth group.  Elise is the Haitian version of the biblical name, Elisha.  He aspires to be a poet, evangelist, pastor, and teacher. These are poems he wrote in English, and he has other more complex ones in Creole and French.  He hopes to publish a book one day.  I edited the grammar a little bit.

"American People"

Your hair may be white
Your eyes may be blue or gray
Your (skin) may be red or white
Your hair may be long or short
You may be tall or short

But we would all like to have hair like yours
But we would like to look at your eyes to be happy
But we like you very much like that
But we would like you to be near us all the time
But you're really magnificent

The difference find inside of your heart
You're all and always attractive
You like to talk and share some ideas
With people you don't even know
You make the life better when you're there
We would like to have the hearts like yours.



Emanuel & Elise (on the right) at their High School

"Untitled"

A smile is a diamond.  A smile is a miracle, because not everyone can smile.  This world is a mystery.  We can not understand everything.  We know a few things.  (There is) just one person who can help us to understand this world, but we can't see him.  I like to see everyone smile.  You need to smile even though you are suffering.  Life is beautiful...it will be more beautiful in Heaven.  I hope you will be happy to pass this week with us (talking to a team visiting Haiti).  Thank you for this time.  You're very nice.  I hope to see you next time.  Everyone on your team is very gentle.  You need to be an optimist, because living without optimism is not a good life. 

From the young poet Elisha.
That is wonderful!
That is beautiful!
To write poems about everything good.
BonDye beni ou!  (God Bless You)



Elise comes from a big family and loves to teach
children about God.

 
There is a great photo on Fritz's blog that captures Elise's character.  You can find it by clicking on this link and scrolling down:
http://fritzphoto.com/blog/category/travel-photography/haiti
 
 
-The Grimms

Saturday, October 23, 2010

Some Pics from the Last Trip

Thanks to the members of the October Team for these pics! 


Four cute boys from the orphanage: (L to R)
Anderson (age 3), John (10), Kenlove (2), Nesli (4)


Cory rockin' out with Santia (age 6), Rose (10, and Lucy (8)...girls from the orphanage

200 people in a school made of tree branches up in the mountains of Haiti waiting for medical attention and singing praise songs...can anyone say crowd control issues?  But there's nowhere I would rather be!



Anderson needs a good shave! 
Sue and Cory help him out.  These kids
don't have parents...we need to teach
them the big AND the small things.
 



Preparing to climb the mountain...if I could even begin to describe the raw, unrefined talent and spiritual potential these young men possess!  What a privilege and overwhelmingly awesome responsibility to shape them in some way in the years to come.  When I look at these guys I see the future of Haiti...and it looks bright.
Elise (tall one to the left)-  The poet/pastor/evangelist.  The leader of the group. (I will post some of his writings in the days to come)
David (center, striped shirt)-  Elise's shy older brother...probably the smartest young man in the village.
Chelo (light blue shirt)-  The translator...most likely of the bunch to master English one day, a true businessman in the making.
Zachary (dark blue, behind Chelo)-  The Bible scholar who attends seminary...very intense man with a  raw yet undeniable call from God.



Question:  Are you wet from rain or sweat?  Answer:  Yes!

Patwouko, Joshua, and Jesula...the leaders of our ministry in Haiti.  We will
live in the same compound as them and share life together every day.
Cory & Chelo cracking jokes together...teaching each other
English and Creole sayings and expressions
October Team in Miami

The infectious and unbreakable spirit and smile of LUCY!
She has a been through a lot and yet she worships Jesus with a heart of
unrestrained joy...her testimony is both inspiring and convicting.


A Quick Update

17 Days Until the Big Move!

Family and Friends,

Sorry we haven't written much this week on the blog...but we will have plenty to write in the weeks ahead as the big move finally happens and as we experience our first days and months in Haiti!  So check back soon.  Here are a few quick updates:

Sunday, Oct. 24-   Cory will lead the music at all worship services at Good News in Sioux Falls.  This will be a great chance for us to say "goodbye" to our church family.  At night He will be speaking at the New Life Reformed 5PM service in Sioux Center.  This opportunity came up at the last minute.  He will speak on "Bible Memorization" and share a little bit about what is new with Mission Haiti.  Feel free to join us for either of these church services.

Our House (for sale/rent)-  Many people have been praying for this and we are still awaiting God's answer.  Keep praying!  We've had lookers, but no offers so far.

Cholera in Haiti-  You may have heard on the news, but there is a cholera outbreak in Haiti, and already hundreds have died.  It has not reached the southern region where we will live and work.  Please pray for the people in tent cities who could be hit hardest by this new problem.  And pray that God will use this trial to continue to draw people to Himself in faith.

May your weekend be an adventure for Jesus!

God Bless,
The Grimms

Monday, October 18, 2010

Confronting the Voodoo Culture

22 Days Until the Big Move!

Family and Friends,

We had several inquiries about our house today! (see previous post)  Praise God!  No offers yet, but we are optimistic again about selling the house.  We lowered the price significantly which always generates interest.  If you would like to see the listing on our own website or craigslist, use these links:

     http://www.grimmhome.weebly.com/ 
     http://siouxfalls.craigslist.org/reo/2012218863.html

Tonight I (Cory) wanted to write something about voodoo in Haiti.  We get asked about that issue a lot, and obviously being new to the whole situation we cannot yet give an in-depth answer.  However, we have learned a few things and would be glad to pass them on to you so you can pray for us and the people of Haiti.  As we learn more in the months and years to come we will share what we learn.

There is a saying in Haiti: "The people of Haiti are 90% catholic and 100% voodoo."  I don't believe that is literally true, but the point is simply that the general mindset of voodoo permeates Haitian culture in many ways.  And what is the general mindset of voodoo?  Fear, spiritual sensitivity bordering on paranoia, and distrust of others, just to name a few characteristics.  Whether a person is an active participant in the voodoo rituals or just an average everyday Haitian (including Christians), you likely will see his/her life and worldview marked by these traits.

Before we throw up our hands in defeat, however, we have to take a look at ourselves as well.  From what I can see, I believe voodoo is to Haiti what consumerism is to the United States.  If you take a step back and look critically at our culture, you can see that consumerism has crept into every part of our lives, including the church just as voodoo has affected all of Haiti.  What do I mean by that?  Well, we Americans are culturally conditioned to respond to flashing packaging, hype, perceived financial value, emotional manipulation, and even sex-appeal in every aspect of life. These tools of consumerism constantly bombard our subconscious mind and affect our decisions concerning the things we buy, the church we choose to attend and our engagement level in that church, the music we listen to, and the missionaries we support.  In short, unless something is "cool" or "trendy" in some way, Americans as a whole aren't interested.  Consumerism is as much a religion as voodoo.

If you agree with and understand what I am talking about, you can begin to imagine how voodoo works in Haiti.  Yes, there are people there who openly practice the worship of Satan and the rituals that are associated with the voodoo religion.  Basically, they purposefully invite demons to inhabit their bodies in the hope that they will receive "benefits" from those relationships, including improved crops, other forms of wealth, and revenge against enemies.  Sadly, Satan never holds up his end of the bargain and only wants to "steal, kill, and destroy."

This is a major concern and we fully expect people to continue to attack Mission Haiti, including our family and our Haitian friends.  I just asked Patchouko, a key leader in our ministry, about this issue on the last trip.  I asked, "Do you think people in the area actively seek to harm Pam or Mission Haiti through voodoo rituals?"  He responded, "This goes on constantly, and we have to pray against it every day."

An even more pressing concern I see is the need to confront fear and mistrust among Christians in everyday life.  I wrote about this in an earlier newsletter, but in Haiti it seems like many Haitian Pastors almost elevate Satan to an equal level with God in their preaching.  In other words, in their eyes good and evil are battling and if we are lucky we might overcome in the end.  However, I believe Satan is not equal with God!  Not even close! 

II Thess. 2:8 says, "And then the lawless one will be revealed, whom the Lord Jesus will overthrow with the breath of his mouth and destroy by the splendor of his coming." 

Sometimes people portray that final battle at the end of time as one that could go either way and finally Jesus barely overcomes.  That is not the case at all.  Jesus will overcome the Antichrist and Satan simply by "the breath of his mouth and the splendor of his coming."  Therefore, if we are on God's side we have the power to overcome demons and curses and anything else that comes our way in this life.  My hope is to help Haitian people embrace this truth and no longer live lives of fear and mistrust and looking for demons under every rock, so to speak.

Even better, I can imagine a beautiful place in the middle where we can help each other become more like Christ.  The Haitians can help me and my family be cured of our sickness of consumerism (and other things too!).  They can see where we are blind to our own culturally-conditioned weaknesses, and we can see some of their shortcomings associated with voodoo.  On the positive side of things, we bring Biblical knowledge to the table, and Haitians bring a natural openness to the power of the Holy Spirit.  So if we learn to openly address and utilize all of these strengths and weakness to the glory of God, anything will be possible!

I invite your comments and questions concerning this topic and look forward to being able to share more in the future.

Embrace the Adventure God Has for You Today!
(whether it is cool or trendy or not!)

-The Grimms

 

Sunday, October 17, 2010

Preparing for the Big Move

23 Days until the big move!

Family and Friends,

Just a few weeks until we depart, and yet there are many hurdles to overcome before we board that plane in Omaha on the 9th.  We would appreciate your prayers on some of these current concerns listed below.  We hope you had a wonderful Sunday!

1.  Alexandra diagnosed with a heart murmur-  We have been getting our physicals and vaccinations lately, and a few days ago our Doctor told us Alexandra (our youngest daughter, age 3) has a heart murmur.  Most of the time this doesn't turn out to be a problem for people, but we will consult a cardiologist for two reasons...Alexandra never had this before that we know of, and we are moving to Haiti.  On the 29th we have an appointment to find out more.  We'll keep you updated.

2.  Packing-  We are trying to fit almost everything we will need for the next 7 months in 10 suitcases.  On international flights you can each check two 50 lb. bags, so we can fill those with clothes, books, computers, pots and pans, and whatever else we need.  It should be interesting.  We might be able to send a few suitcases later with Pam and a mission team, but we are focusing on fitting what we can for now.

3.  The House-  This is probably our biggest source of stress right now.  We tried for a long time to sell it...then we switched to trying to rent it.  In both cases no one seems to be interested.  So we are waiting on God for wisdom in this situation.  Cory spent time last week and will continue this week to fast and pray about the house.  Our first choice would still be to sell it, and at this point we would be willing to take a large loss just to simplify our lives.  We've been told we should contact all the farmers we know and tell them we have a nice double-wide manufactured home they can move to their property!  We trust God has this situation under control and is planning to show up big time to help us with a solution.

4.  Saying "Good-bye"-  We attended our home church this week, Good News Reformed in Sioux Falls.  We don't get to do that so much anymore because Cory is usually either gone to Haiti or speaking in some other church.  We looked around and saw many friends we hadn't seen for awhile, and it made us realize we will soon say "good-bye" to everyone, and we probably won't have time to say a proper "good-bye" to most of you.  Next weekend Cory will lead worship at Good News, the following weekend we will visit the Grimm side in Newton, and the final weekend before we go we will spend with Lynn's side, the Bleekers.  In between we will squeeze in other little get-togethers to say "good-bye."  So if you are reading this, and it seems like we rush off without talking to you personally, we apologize!  Just know we are thinking about you and praying for you and will always be an e-mail away...

5.  Other Preparations-  The check-list is still long with other preparations for moving.  We need to move everything from our house (minus 10 suitcases!) into storage, set up bills and mailings to be handled from Haiti, and finish vaccinations and arrangements with the airline.  In Haiti we will need to quickly set up everything we need shortly after arriving.  One big issue will be internet availability.  It has been spotty at best so far, yet there is supposedly a better system available...but at a high cost.  We will assess those options when we get there as well as purchasing beds, appliances, food, etc...

Thanks as always for joining us on this adventure through prayer, financial contributions, and other forms of encouragement.  We are extremely excited and optimistic about everything God is doing in our lives these days.  They say the first year is the hardest when you move to another culture, and we look forward to leaning on God's power and the reassuring words of family and friends as we attempt to navigate that period of time in Haiti.

God Bless,

The Grimms  

Thursday, October 14, 2010

Paradox in Missions

My last trip to Haiti got me thinking about how backwards everything can be on the mission field....or in following Jesus in general!  For example, if you want good things to start happening in your life, stop working so frantically and pray.  Below are 10 other statements that wrestle with some of those ideas and realities. Tell me what you think and whether you agree or disagree.  Please add some of your own by utilizing the "comment" section below.



Some paradoxical statements about missions:
By Cory Grimm

1.  To change people, you must become like them.

2.  To help the poor, you must befriend the rich.

3.  To save a life (or truly live yourself), you must die.

4.  To appreciate your blessings, you must leave them behind.

5.  To learn the complexities of God's love, you must live a simple life.

6.  To discover the limits of your abilities, you must fail.

7.  To share a message, you must listen.

8.  To be led by the Holy Spirit, you must be self-disciplined.

9.  To experience God's power, you must be weak.

10.  To overcome the enemy, you must fight yourself.


May your adventure today be filled with the mysteries and complexities of our amazing Savior Jesus Christ!

Monday, October 11, 2010

An Adventurous Adventure

29 Days until the big move!

Family and Friends,

Jefte...a cute kid in the mountains whose
right leg stopped growing years ago.  He serves
as a metaphor for all of Haiti...getting by for now
 but what does the future hold?
The October 3-10 Mission Haiti team returned around 3AM this morning to Sioux Falls, and the trip was a success.  The reason for the title of this blog was some new and interesting scenarios we saw playing out during this trip which challenged us and drove us to our knees to pray.  Every trip has adventures but this one maybe had a few more than normal.

As we made our way to Haiti one of the team members lost his passport.  We realized it was gone about an hour into our layover in Chicago.  Soon we would be leaving on a flight to Miami, and we needed to find the passport quickly or someone was not going to be able to go.  A couple of people went back to the gate where we exited the last plane, and the plane was already gone, but the passport was there at the desk!  That was a tense few minutes, but the relief was sweet.

Our trip plans all hinged on school starting on October 4th.  The plan was to do clinics and Bible programs in the schools for all of the school children.  Of course nothing happens as you would expect in Haiti, so they moved school back to the 11th (today).  We went ahead as planned and hiked 2 1/2 hours up to our most remote school on the first day, hoping we could still see people.  We were thrilled to find around 200 individuals there waiting for us.  However, with the parents and kids all mixed together in a small room, both the children's program and the clinic were extremely unruly.  We survived the day, however, and the people seemed pleased.  I had a chance to meet our newest sponsor child, Delanchia.  She is Elizabeth's sponsor child.  Another day, another adventure.

Way up in the mountains with our new sponsor child, Delanchia
The adventures continued throughout the week as we did more clinics and children's programs, sometimes slogging through mud and rain.  Some other parts of this trip that made it unique were:

Rebecca De Wit worked with some deaf children in the village to give them tools for communication.  She gave them a folder with pictures of everyday items.  Now the children can point to the picture of what they are trying to say.  She spent time teaching the parents and other siblings in the house how to do these things.

We also visited the only school in the south of Haiti for children with Downs Syndrome.  A little girl just down the street from where we will live attends the school in Les Cayes, and Pam asked us to visit and assess whether we felt it was a good operation or not.  I thought the director and her husband seemed like really kind, devoted people.  The school is actually a boarding school for ages 5-13, and the kids are taught sign language as well as all of their other subjects and skills for daily life.  It was inspiring. 

Next I had a chance to visit a Haitian prison while we were in the city.  People warned me and told me horror stories, but that only made me want to go more of course.  Kiki (our main contact person in Haiti), who is always reserved and stoic, told me the night before, "You better prepare yourself before going...it is a heart-breaking place."  We went there with a purpose...to see Aldoni, a young man who has been a part of our youth group.  He is serving a 3-month sentence.  I had previously asked the youth group members to write letters of encouragement to their fallen brother, and many of them did.  Kiki, Patchouko (the youth pastor), and I went to the prison and requested permission to pay Aldoni a visit.

As we were walking up to the facility it was obvious this was a place where they don't mess around.  Our trio must have been a strange sight, because the entire outer courtyard stopped what they were doing and watched as we approached the office.  From there we were directed to walk around to the back of the compound.  We passed four or five UN troops from Senegal who were providing extra support to the guards and police.  Kiki spoke to them in French and they told us where to go next.  The officer or director in charge of the facility for the day was not there at the moment, so we wandered around another courtyard just outside the building where the cells were located. 

I began to feel a heaviness in the air similar to the day when we prayed with Rosemonde to be freed from demon possession (see earlier posts).  I looked over at a nasty garbage pile, and right on cue an enormous rat sauntered by as if he owned the place.  Some women were preparing some unrecognizable food over an open fire, mostly likely to be served to the inmates.  The smell was not very appetizing.  Every glance in my direction told me I didn't belong in this place with my light complexion, and yet there was that glint in their eyes you always see when Haitians express a sense of pride in being noticed and appreciated by an American.

Finally the man in charge drove up and presented us with a guarded, if not antagonistic front.  Clearly someone had called or radioed him to let him know there were some interesting strangers on the premises making everyone nervous.  His first impulse was to get rid of us as quickly as possible and he said as much.  I was glad at that moment I had left my camera on the bus.  However, I stood there with as much confidence and calm as I could project, and Kiki began to explain why we were there.  The director's face was 2 feet from my own and I began to pray intensely that the Holy Spirit would change his mind as Kiki talked.  I could literally see God changing the man's attitude as he relaxed and listened, and yet he still tried to find reasons not to let us in.  But to make a long story short, we were graciously given "1 minute."

Next we were led through another sliding door which the guard locked ominously behind us.  We approached a large door that led to the inner courtyard.  From that vantage point we could see the 15-20 cells where the inmates were housed.  Each cell was similar in size to the American prison cells I have seen designed for 1 or 2 inmates, but the difference in Haiti was that around 10-12 men were jammed into the same amount of space.  We explained to the next guard what we were doing, and he sent someone to find Aldoni.  Meanwhile, I walked up to that large inner door to get a better view of the cells.  The men nearest to the cell doors around the courtyard pressed their faces to the bars to see the "blanc" (white person) and some of them called out in my direction.  I wish I spoke enough creole to understand what they were saying...then again, sometimes it is better not knowing.

Aldoni was brought out from his cell into the inner courtyard, and we were given our 1 minute with him at the gate.  We shook his hands several times through the bars and told him some quick words of encouragement.  It was clear he was happy to see us.  We handed the guard his notes from the other youth group members, and the guard began to read the notes to himself.  Then we were asked to leave and our presumption is that Aldoni was given those notes to keep and read for himself.  He looked alright...not too beat up or starved.  Our hope is that God will change him in there and give him a better vision for his future when he gets out.

One last adventure from the trip...

The bus broke down on the way back to the airport yesterday!  This is probably the biggest fear of everyone who goes on the Mission Haiti team trips...to be broken down in the middle of the night in a 3rd world country with very little water or food or options for rescue.  Our flight was at 9:20, and we had left the village around 2AM.  Normally the trip takes 5-6 hours, so we don't leave too much wiggle room. 

The bus was giving us problems all week, but I thought it had been fixed the day before.  However, as we attempted to ascend the mountains on the way to Port it quickly became obvious we were in trouble.  We nursed it along for awhile but finally Kiki and I agreed we had to go to "plan B."  The problem was, I wasn't really sure what Plan B was going to be.  Fortunately, at that point we found ourselves in a decent-sized city, and now it was around 6AM. 

We sent Ronal, our bus driver, to try to find something else to rent.  He came back in just a few minutes with a large new van and driver and the driver's boss.  Kiki and I and the boss made a circle and assumed our stances for negotiating.  Kiki started talking to him about prices, and meanwhile I was calculating in my head how much it would cost if we missed our flight.  I was figuring somewhere around $1,000 US, not to mention the inconvenience of getting people home later and probably causing them to miss work, and then the boss came back with his price:  900 Haitian dollars (about $115 US) for the vehicle and the driver.  I literally laughed out loud and said, "Okay, let's do it."  So much for negotiations.

Sometimes being in Haiti is actually more convenient than the US.  No papers  were signed.  No downpayment was required.  We threw our bags in the back and were off in less than 5 minutes.  Kiki and Ronal stayed with the bus to try to get it fixed, back to Port-au-Prince, and ready for the next team.  The driver drove like a madman, honking at other vehicles the whole way, but we just laughed the laugh of relief at not being stranded along the road.  We made our flight with 10 minutes to spare, and the rest of the day was a breeze.

As we drove the final stretch between Omaha and Sioux Falls (a notoriously boring drive), we thanked God for boring, straight, predictable interstate highways through corn fields.

I hope your week was an adventure in the Lord as well!  We will post more in the days to come, so check back. Thanks as always to everyone who prayed for us this past week.

God Bless,

The Grimms

Saturday, October 2, 2010

Every Day is an Adventure

38 Days Until the Big Move!

Elizabeth, Kester, and Alexandra

Do these match?

Family and Friends,

As mentioned before we had a chance to sort shoes for Haiti the other night, and we took the kids along to help.  They did a great job of looking for pairs of shoes, sandals, and  boots.  Mission Haiti gets new footwear donated that would otherwise be thrown away.  The shoes were once display models, and of course they only put out one shoe on the floor as the model.  Eventually we can pair up enough of them to send down to Haiti for the kids in school.  It was a lot of fun!

Tomorrow I (Cory) will leave for another 1-week trip to Haiti with a team from Sioux Falls.  Please continue to pray for this team to have a great week.  After that our schedule as a family looks like this:

       Oct. 10-       Team returns from Haiti
       Oct. 24-       Lead Worship at Good News (our home church)
       Oct. 27/28-  Move out of our home in Sioux Falls
       Oct. 29-31-  Final visit to Cory's family
       Nov. 1-8-     Final preparations for moving and visiting Lynn's family
       Nov. 9-        Fly to Miami
       Nov. 10-      Travel to Haiti!

Thanks so much to everyone who continues to lift us up in prayer each time you remember us.  Please continue to pray for the people of Haiti as well.  They may not be on the news as much these days, but things haven't changed that much.  School starts October 4th, so pray that attendance will be strong in the schools we run down there and that the teachers and students will have a great year.

God Bless!

-The Grimms